Three Topics Every Married Couple Should Talk Frankly About

Many married couples, as well as couples about to be married, silently agree to not discuss certain intimate subjects. Many people try to avoid topics such as how to raise children, finances, and sex. The fact is, every married couple needs to talk about these things honestly and openly. Only then will they be able to strike a lasting bond between them. If you aren't comfortable expressing yourself with your partner, then there is something else wrong with your marriage in the first place.

It seems kind of silly that people avoid discussing sex. They simply follow their urges and avoid actually discussing the topic. They could spend some time actually discussing things that can make sex more pleasurable or more intimate but they don't. This can lead to one or both partners feeling unsatisfied sexually which often leads to infidelity. It is best that you take the time to sit down with your partner and have regular conversations about sex. All three of these time periods are critical to the utmost enjoyment of both partners.

Talking about your views on finances and spending is a good idea both before and after the wedding. If the two of you have very different views on spending, then it will certainly cause issues in the future. Some couples even has separate bank accounts which isn't usually a good idea. Instead, you need to work out your budget together and trust each other with the money you do have. Pooling your resources results in a stronger bond between you and teaches you both to compromise.

Another important topic that couples should discuss is having children. You should wait to get married until you can both decide on the future as far as children are concerned. Not only will you need to discuss whether or not to have children in the first place, but you also need to discuss how to raise them. You both need to work together to present a united front to your children. It is usually not a good idea to argue too frequently in front of your children. It would be much better if you put up any arguments you're about to have in front of your children until you have a chance to be alone.

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